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MY LETTER TO THE TIMES

To the Times:

Re Jean Gannet’s recent article in the magazine, I want to know part of your editorial policy allows for the public advocacy of misandry and heterophobia:

<< It must be mildly embarrassing to be a straight man, and it is incumbent upon each of them to mitigate this embarrassment in a way that feels authentic to him. >>

How is this a statement that comports with your sensitivity policy, which I assume you have? Or are “straight men” omitted just like we are from the rainbow flag?

The writer (who plays with prominent, public visual imagery akin to incest with her sister, sitting in what is called yab-yum intercourse position, see below) is pleading to know why men are not interested in her — the same men she says should be embarrassed to be men?

The same men whom the Times excoriated as predators for 18 months on page one during the #metoo era from late 2017 into early 2019?

Where were the men quoted in this article to respond to this? Did any “straight man” read this before it went to press? I get the image of a features department staffed with women and queers like Marie Claire. I am probably not far from the truth.

The Times has bared its ass on its bigotry toward heterosexual men, which in some form can be found in the newspaper several times a week.

But this is truly outrageous.

I must ask, speaking as a professional editor of long standing: what is wrong with you people? This is on the level of needing a psych eval.

If you want to know who I am, type my name into your search engine.

Eric F. Coppolino

Senior Producer - Investigations

Pacifica Radio - Planet Waves FM, Kingston

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So much in here Eric. For some reason I keep having this image pop up of a unique (at the time) television ad for the ABC television station (late 80's early 90's?) It was a solid yellow background with simple dark font over it. no other images. I don't remember the exact words, but the message was "its ok to watch a lot of television, go ahead, indulge, its a good thing" My father, in the mid-to-late 70's used to discourage television watching, calling it the "Boob Tube" And I think there was this kind of message floating around that too much tv wasn't good for you, or at least it was considered shameful to watch too much of it. Of course , I would them come across him mesmerized by it himself, eating a bowl of ice cream, and watching Charlies Angels. Not even sure what point I'm making, but driving across the Bay Bridge most of the billboards these days are AI related and are are imageless, just font on a background color. Its possibly just the latest trend in advertising, but there's something eerie about it ; seeing all these sentences aimed at you. I also find myself comparing our situation to those movies where someone is alone in a space capsule with only occasional visual contact with folks on earth through a fuzzy video call with scratchy audio. I don't know about others, but in these times I feel like I'm holding so many different things within myself, and just wondering when its all going to break. One saving grace has been breathing earth energy up into my body to circulate through it as it will, and after a few moments of this, focusing on resonating sound with the energy coming up. Its not important how close I am getting to matching the energy with my vocal sound but the simple effort to do so seems to help with inner stabilization over a bit of time. A safe place in nature is my best scenario, but I also do it in my room.

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